7 Common Habits Of People Who Are Not Worthy Of Your Trust

The first step of healthy adulting is recognising the fact that not everyone has your best interest at heart. Who is being genuine? Who should you trust?

Here are seven common habits of people who are potentially not trust-worthy.
(It is not absolute, but a good indicator that you should think twice before committing trust.)

#1 They break the ice quickly with strangers and new people
If someone whom you just met, start telling you things that are way too personal, it is an indication that they may be unstable.

This person is possibly bad at keeping secrets too.

#2 They ignore your boundaries
For example, someone who struggles to take no for an answer, someone who continually overlooks your opinions and even makes decisions for you. This person probably doesn't respect you from the bottom of his/her heart.

#3 They dominate the conversation
They will employ the tactic of cutting in and out to steer the conversation in one direction or another, depending on what their agenda is. Someone like this is highly toxic. On a side note, it's always more mature to be the one who is listening and not try to level up on the conversation by speaking louder or cutting in equally much.

Be at peace.

#4 They talk about people most of the time
This habit reflects what they have on their minds. They don't talk about ideas or opinions or anything. It will always be a game of he-says-she-says. Do not trust a person like this easily.

#5 They make skewed judgements based on emotions or hearsays
A person like this is likely to be non-confrontational. They like to hear opinions and feelings, more than facts and

#6 They change their minds too quickly
And often, it comes with not remembering what was being said.

#7 They manipulate how you feel
Based on how much they know you, they seek to control your feelings by raising rage and other negative emotion within you through words and other non-verbals.

Everyone has a good side, but there will also be a stronger lure of greed, jealousy and blame-pushing that will coerce people into doing things that are not so nice.

These 7 habits are good indicators for you to think twice before trusting someone. No one is perfect. Follow your gut feeling and do the right thing at the right time.

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